Nevertheless there are a few men who easily stroll into a bar, spot a hot, attractive woman - and are able to walk right up to her, make her laugh, and drive off with her at the end of the night (and they aren't someone you'd consider an alpha male, either).
The difference between them and you is one thing - self-confidence. You're going into there assuming you have nothing to offer a woman who you consider out of your league - and he's going into there with a mindset that exudes self assurance - something she (and every other woman on the face of the planet) finds really sexy and attractive.
Josh Pellicer - the author of The Tao of Badass (the 1 bestselling guide to getting ladies) shows you the way to grow the mindset that you need. And this isn't just going to help you with girls - it's life-changing stuff - it will affect the way in which the entire world perceives you - your co-workers, your boss, your family and friends - everyone.
Confidence and cockiness are two different things. That's why the arrogant, blunt idiots who walk up to a woman using a sleaze approach always get shot down. Perhaps you've been that chap, attempting to fake self-confidence and having it come across all wrong.
You thought up some fancy pick up lines, put on your finest outfit, and approached with what you called swagger. She eyes rolls you and turns away, leaving you feeling embarrassed and even less confident than before.
Self-confidence beats any pickup line. Men that are wishy washy and tentative don't encourage feelings of security in a girl. They don't attract girls. Girls desire a guy that makes them feel safe - taken care of in a social sense.
Men that lack self-confidence lack a belief in themselves and in their capabilities. They lack a sense of self worth and carry a belief that they can't attract women, so they don't - it's a self fulfilling prophecy.
Why don't these types of guys attract women? Due to the fact that they're sending the vibe out that they're not even sure about their own sense of importance, much less a girl's.
Girls don't desire a guy who doesn't understand who he is and what his place is in the universe. He carries himself in a different way. He walks with an air of self worth that doesn't border on the kind of cockiness that puts off girls. He's not hunched over and nervous looking - he stands up straight, makes eye contact, and isn't rushed and hurried due to nerves.
A guy who is confident even if he's not the best looking man in the room is always the one who gets the attention - always the one that makes girls take a second look.
Do you struggle to believe in yourself whenever a beautiful girl talks to you - because you're positive nothing is going to come of it? Somewhere in your life, you lost your self-belief - or you never had it to begin with.
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